Men and women getting married is common, but how to make their marriage happy is not a easy way to go. Many women complain why there are so few good men. But as a woman, have you already adjusted your minds to encounter with a good man? If you want him to cherish you for his entire life, then you should make yourself deserve it.
What kind of women on earth can attract good men’s love? If you are one of the five kinds of women, then your marriage will be perfect and happy!
1. Women who love themselves and their men
There is a good saying that if a person does not love himself/herself, then he/she will not love others, especially for a woman. Many women in love always give, and ignore themselves, but eventually they get betrayed by their men. This may prove one opinion sufficiently that men’s betrayal is indulged by women themselves to some extent.
Men are born to lust for women, when he is with you, he may think about go out with other women. If women do not protect themselves, as time goes by, the man will go away. So brilliant women should learn to love themselves at first then love others, and at the same time, you should also learn to protect your body and always pay close attention to your appearance, thus you can keep man’s heart.
2. Women who give each other spaces
If you love him, then give him sufficient free space and do not restrict his behaviors, because he will feel negative about this kind of restriction. Women should not tell their husband everything, especially when you encounter with something that make you upset.
You can go to pour out to your best friend because a bystander is always clear-minded. If both of you have friends of the opposite sex, do not surprise, smart women know where the boundary is, and they will also give support to their men’s careers.
3. Women who self-respect
Nowadays, one night stand is regarded as an alternative fashion. What does a person want? Just sex? No, it’s not true, when a good women encounter with a man who she likes, the first thing she should do is to get along with him and know him to see if he is the right one, and sex should come after enhancement of the relationship.
Do men dare to marry a woman who can have sex with any men? So men should cherish those women who self-respect because this kind of women are rare.
4. Women with sense of responsibility
No matter men or women, everyone should have sense of responsibility. But many women go out with men for money or power, and they just treat their affection and body as kind of exchange tools.
This kind of women can be with you for some certain things you own, but she will leave you to get some other things. Do you want such irresponsible women? Good women should be responsible for themselves and others, and can self-control in front of money.
5. Women who have thoughts and opinions
Nowadays, social development makes people suffer from greater pressure. Men bear great pressure when they make their living outside. So if you are a thoughtful woman, you can at least have your own career and life value instead of always depending on men. Likewise, women should also learn something from society and pressure, thus to make themselves mature and charming.
Meanwhile, thoughtful women who can make themselves strong and brave will not fight with men for money, because not everything can be measured by money, money cannot buy happiness and it is not the base of affection and marriage. So thoughtful women know what they want instead of always chasing for fame and money.
Marriage is a nest to identify your love instead of tomb of love. Smart women know how to manage their marriage, and they won’t let the land conquered by themselves go into ruin.